Confident Mentality

 

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“Develop success from failures. Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success.”

Recently I got a chance to lead a meeting, and to be honest, it did not turn out the way I expected it to. I did my best, and I continued on even though it was an uncomfortable situation for me. After the meeting was over, I was hard on myself because the meeting didn’t go as I hoped. But when I really thought about it, I came to the conclusion that this was a learning experience, and the next time, I will be better prepared if the situation occurred again. The most important aspect I believe is not the mistake itself, it is letting that mistake impede me from leading a meeting again. I am totally confident if given another opportunity I will be that much better. Success is all about falling and getting up YP’s, let’s not our failures deter us from reaching our Successville! We all live and learn!  

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“You can never go somewhere you’ve never been without doing something you’ve never done”

YP’s, if we want to change our lives for the better, we can not expect to do the same things and expect different results. We have to be able to get out of our comfort zone and challenge ourselves. Even though it can be uncomfortable, chances must be taken in order for us to accomplish our goals, whatever it may be. We have to be the painters in our lives if we want to create a masterpiece! 

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          I recently had a sit down with one of my favorite professors from my graduate program, Dr. Richard Cooper. Dr. Cooper graduated from Howard University with a Master in Social Work, and then attended Temple University and received his Ph.D. in Inter-Disciplinary Urban Education. I always enjoyed his class, and the enthusiasm he displayed each every time we met. He is a person that I look up to, so I wanted to get his opinions and gain some insight on how I could carve out my niche and explore different avenues once I graduate. Below are some important points that Dr. Cooper discussed, which I thought my fellow YP’s would find helpful as I did. Appreciate you Dr. Coop, and your knowledge!

Dr. Cooper:

  • After school, use your new spare time to create your own life’s treatment plan. Think about the goals you want to accomplish and work towards them.  Set goals for 1-3 years, and work in attaining them with hard work, and initiation.
  • Never fear rejection when you are working towards a goal
  • Reach out and network with people that you want to be apart of. Whether it is organizations, groups, attending conferences, free lance writing, consulting,  etc…
  • Read books of people who have been successful and who have done it! Read about these people so you can increase your knowledge, and gain a better understanding of how people become successful.
  • Your attitude and mindset is very important, you have to believe!

YPJimH, Young Professionals Writer

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Wale Folarin Limitations Excerpt

September 20, 2011

“I feel I know a little bit of everything but I’ve grown unfamiliar with limitations…” Wale is one of my favorite young hip-hop artists because of his inspirational and motivational messages in his music.  This except is from the intro off his latest mixtape “Eleven One Eleven Theory” that he released as a precursor to [...]

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You Can’t Be Scared To Be Great!!! (Replay)

May 22, 2011

                                   “I’M NERVOUS, BUT I’M NOT TERRIFIED”           YPs, I’m sure if you look back into your lives, you can find a time where you were going into a new situation that you weren’t too sure about.  You probably felt nervous, anxious or even scared.  I heard a man say once, when about [...]

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What If: Great Leaders became Extinct?

April 1, 2011

  Leadership requires the ability to make decisions, to guide, or to direct a person , group and or society to take action in order to accomplish a common goal. Many people have allowed  themselves to become complacent. Ironically, and as a result we now have more followers and the prospective pool of leaders is very shallow. [...]

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Good Quote from James Frey

September 16, 2010

“If you care about what others think of you, then you will always be their slave.” This is a pretty direct but insightful quote by Frey.  A lot of times people feel pressured to do things based on what others may think or say.  Personally, I’ve fallen victim to that when I was younger and [...]

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Officially a Full-Time Graduate Student!

September 1, 2010

          I remember writing a blog titled, “To Master or Not to Master, That is the ?“ back in December of 2009. In that blog, I weighed the negatives, and positives about pursuing a masters, and I still struggle with those same questions to this day! I talked about leaning towards pursuing a masters, and [...]

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Motivation: Strength, Courage & Wisdom

May 24, 2010

“Strength, Courage & Wisdom” by India Arie Step out on faith It’s time to show my face Procrastination had me down Look what I have found, I’ve found Strength, courage and wisdom It’s been inside of me all along Strength, courage and wisdom Inside of me (Chorus) by India Arie           YPs its the beginning [...]

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Good Quote from Unknown Author

May 11, 2010

“You are the CEO of your life”! – Unknown Author Morning YP’s! Very simple quote, but very powerful in the same breathe. I like this quote because it says that YOU are the only person who is in charge of your life. Granted, there are factors that are out of our control, but at the [...]

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Good Poem: “Don’t Quit”

April 13, 2010

  When things go wrong, as they sometimes will, When the road you’re trudging seems all uphill, When the funds are low and the debts are high, And you want to smile, but you have to sigh, When care is pressing you down a bit, Rest, if you must, but don’t you quit.   Life [...]

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Good Quote From J. Cole

April 1, 2010

J. Cole: Just To Get By (Freestyle) “Now where’s the ladder|Cause either you gone whine or you climb| I choose the latter (ladder).”           Enough with the whining and complaining YPs!  You’re wasting energy and quite frankly nobody wants to hear about your misfortune over and over and over again.  We all have to deal [...]

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What’s Your Net Worth?

April 1, 2010

            Ever think about your net worth ladies and gents?  I have and I can tell you when you sit down and calculate your net worth it can be depressing if you realize your net worth is negative as far as dollars and cents.  When you calculate your net worth, it’s simple accounting consisting [...]

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Good Quote From President Barack Obama

March 22, 2010

“Making your mark on the world is hard. If it were easy, everybody would do it. But it’s not. It takes patience, it takes commitment, and it comes with plenty of failure along the way. The real test is not whether you avoid this failure, because you won’t. It’s whether you let it harden or [...]

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