Hello YP’s! I would like to introduce Ms. John who is a undergraduate student of Rutgers University in 05, and graduate student of labor and employment relations in 07. She is also an entrepreneur, and Business Development, and Strategy Professional Founder of www.IRunMyBody.com. She would like to share her blog titled “NO False Emotions Appearing Real (FEAR)”, which can also be found on her very entertaining, and informative website. Please share your thoughts on her blog, and visit her website as well.
By Ms. John
Fear is a thought and thoughts are things that can be negatively or positivity manifested. In 2010 we are only focusing on manifesting thoughts of positive things with positive outcomes. We are also surrounding ourselves with positive, progressive, forward thinking individuals. Have you ever heard someone say not to think in a negative way, because you may get that undesired outcome? Your thoughts negative or positive may be powerful enough to transition into things — in other words — your reality. Thoughts have a direct affect on your behavior and what you do, so if you believe you cannot, most likely you will not.
Negative thoughts go hand in hand with self-fulfilling prophecies, if you think and believe certain things you are more likely to perform or act in accordance to your beliefs. In addition to the negative thoughts that prevent us from positively progressing in life, sometimes we are surrounded by naysayers who always seem to have something negative to say. They seek to accomplish one goal: instilling fear; repetitiously pointing out why something is too hard, too much work, too much of a risk, or impossible to do. These types of people are the product of negative manifested thoughts. I ask you to take a look at the lives of naysayers and understand that they are only there to breathe fear by wilding up negative emotions into others regarding new challenges. These types of people always have an uncalculated, reason or an excuse for why you are better off not pursuing new challenges but they never have an alternate strategy nor are they able to expand on your goals. Usually their financial status is either below average, check to check, or at best average. They may work a 9 to 5 and do not seek to run their own business. They have no desire to take any risks nor do anything out of the structural context of a 9 to 5 job (as opposed to a career path). Everything a naysayer says only results in deterring your goals if you should make the mistake of internalizing their negative projections.
Seek advice from individuals who have a positive outlook and are not bitter about certain cards that life has dealt them, but who make the best of situations and see points of opportunity even when experiencing temporary setbacks. Those type of individuals serve to provide you with constructive criticism about your goals and will provide you with calculated, well thought out reasons why you may have issues achieving a particular goal. They will also usually suggest an alternate routes to pursue your goal in an effective manner, by using a more inform approach and/or strategy. If someone is going to suggest not doing something they should also suggest alternative strategies or at least expand on your thoughts and goals.
Do not let anyone breathe fear into you and do not create fear for yourself — never give the reasoning of naysayers validity even in the face of temporary defeat , as there is no failure. It is fine to be intimated or feel fear especially when doing something for the first time, however, never say or believe you are scared; instead say and know you are uncomfortable. To be successful get comfortable with feeling uncomfortable and keep moving forward with a positive mindset, even in the mist of temporary setbacks. Remember never get discouraged if you do not accomplish your goal to the level that you desire, because from this comes wisdom, direction and opportunity to expand. There are no failures when pursuing your goals unless you do not pursue them at all, which would mean you have not acquired knowledge nor wisdom. So NO False Emotions Appearing Real in 2010 instead– just feel a little uncomfortable and get comfortable with it.
To contact Ms. John: www.facebook.com/IRMBDIVAS or info@IRunMyBody.com
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