Thursday, September 2, 2010

 

“Things could be a lot worse…”

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“Things could be a lot better…”

          YPs we’ve all had our bad times where things aren’t going well and we or someone says, “Things could be worse,” then we nod our head in agreement.  I begin to ponder on that quote and realized how loosely we use this quote people.  Now don’t get me wrong, this quote is so true to an extent.  But in order to be GREAT I’ve adopted, “Things could be a lot better…” and I’ll tell you why.  One of my pet peeves is a guy or girl that attempts to gain favor with a potential mate by pointing out flaws of their competition.  In this case, competition is that other guy or girl interested in the same potential mate.  I understand that as with any competition someone always wants to gain the upper hand but I prefer someone to gain favor on their own merit and not by someone else flaws and/or faults.  I like to gain favor by what I can do, my attributes and personality not because I pointed out the flaws and/or faults of the next man or woman.  And honestly, if you are indeed the best man or woman for that mate then your attributes will outshine [click to continue…]

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ON DAYS LIKE THIS

On days like this….when the sun meets the horizon just right
and the world looks beautiful
I swear i can see him

I remember his face like it was a fresh memory
Instead of what it was…
old tattered and what should be long forgotten
The contours and lines of it i could map out in my sleep
with out misplacing a dimple
or those laugh lines he gets even when he speaks
cuz see i knew that face

Had it memorized before anyone else took the time to notice it
Cuz see to me
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